Cry gay

And a 2014 study by a trusted source found that crying may have direct self soothing effects on people. Those are mine. Another one is music or songs. So I do cry easily. Yet that version of me still exists today in this, like this adult version of me today. So it’s like I gotta be the one to hold the space for you to cry. It’s just letting it out.

It’s good, it’s good for me to let it out.

We have to make a conscious choice to find stillness, to be with ourselves and to fully let that go. So whether that was on my stomach, my, my thighs, and I would be kind of like rubbing and just like keeping myself down in that downward kind of embodied energy.

And then it allowed the emotions to start flowing. Like I cry when I’m overwhelmed by things that aren’t working for me anymore in my life and I’m shedding.

So for me, crying is like a shedding and a healing and it lets me connect with, so I guess it would be similar to grief, I guess that’s what how, kind of how I perceive grief.

I don’t feel the need to be like, I gotta release the pressure in this pot, otherwise it’s gonna explode. *panting through gritted teeth* *gasps, through harsher choking* N-no Master! Perhaps it’s to mourn what you may have lost as a queer person, or maybe you just prefer to suffer; either way, people tend to watch movies to also feel sad emotions.

If you’re in need of letting it all out, here are eight LGBTQ+ movies that are perfect for it.

8 Love, Simon (2018)

Love, Simonis, per Independent, labeled as one of the first movies ever produced by a major Hollywood studio that has turned its focus on gay teen romance.

But then once that stuff started happening, I started really just kind of like locking down and locking it up because my mom and dad were so emotional. And how can we also support others to cry more because it is very, very important. And so I’ll start crying, but it’s not like I’m happy or sad, it’s just like I’m just being and I’m just letting it come out.

And so now that I’m doing that, it’s like, it’s like this feeling of like, like, like I said, like release, like releasing the pressure valve and and expressing, and the way I kind of view that is like, it’s like a letting go process because it’s like we don’t just cry,

it doesn’t just come out and it’s like the pressure valve just releases itself.

So I, I remember like when I was really, really mental energy, so much mental energy that I couldn’t connect down into crying. And then I still kind of kept things pretty locked down for a while after that. I was like, nope. Yes, the movie can get a little cheesy, but so what? Have you seen any of them?