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No one ever messages you back!!! I will also give out some free and “unsolicited” advice on dating.

Dating Tips:

1. Be upfront about your intentions! Adam4Adam – For Gay Men Who Love Jocks
   Pros
   
   • Huge gay app
   • Serious & casual dating
   • Lots of jocks
   Cons
   Quick Stats
   
   • Best For: Jocks & jock lovers
   • Standout Feature: Live streaming & sex shop
   • Free Version: Yes
   • User Base: 10+ million members
   Adam4Adam is one of the biggest and best gay dating sites out there, and, as it happens, it’s full of jocks.

   So, if you’re a jock lover, you know where to go.

   nextBoy is FREE to use and quick to sign up. Jack'd "Filter" feature is also handy to find exactly what you're looking for in a hookup. I even tried adding other photos before trying to delete the original photo, working under the theory that it wouldn’t delete the photo if there wasn’t enough photo to step in to be the new main photo, but it made no difference.

   Scruff is available for both iOS and Android devices.

   
   

   Pros: Scruff is free to download and use, though there are paid options for those who want more features. But, like with most free gay dating sites, you should always be careful about sharing your personal information and meeting people IRL.
   

   How Can I Stay Safe on Gay Hookup Sites?

   Stay safe on gay hookup sites by using reliable platforms and protecting yourself.

   I leave you to your devices to try things out and discover your favorite.

   Start with AdultFriendFinder – it doesn’t get more efficient than that.

   Scruff is also a great free app, and you should at least use it as a backup since the free membership is all you need.

   Either way, most of these have some sort of a free version that will let you check out the options in your area.

   

   We’ve all been hurt and failed before one way or another which is unfortunate. It also has a large gay community, so you're sure to find a match.

   
   

   Cons: Hornet is not as well-known as some of the other gay hookup apps on this list, so it might be harder to find people in your area who are using it.

   
   

   Tip: Use Hornet's "Interests" feature to find guys who share your interests.

   Whether a casual or a long term relationship, reflect on any fears, obstacles or trauma wounds that might resurface and block relationships, result in the infamous act of “ghosting” and/or an impromptu trip to your therapist.  Identify hard limits and establish healthy boundaries from the beginning. 

2. Heal, Heal, heal!

   
   

   Is Scruff Better Than Grindr?

   Yes, Scruff is better than Grindr because it has a more community feel to it. This will help you stay safe in case things go wrong.

   4. No bait & switch. There’s a strong LGBTQ+ community, the messages are free, and you can use them for casual sex and relationships.

   The Cue’d Up ice breakers help you connect, while the Chemistry Predictor can help you two figure out if you’re right for each other.

   10.

   You can also use the SHOUT feature on the paid version of the app to send a mass message to all users in your area.

   
   

   Choose A Username

   When you're creating your profile for a gay hookup app, one of the first things you'll need to do is choose a username. Some people define dating as the traditional going out on dinner dates and movies etc, while others define dating as meeting people to just hook-up.

   It’s just the biggest one with a banger-free version, so how could it not be as effective?

   You should definitely check it out and, at the very least, keep it as a backup. Grindr tribes include Bear, Clean Cut, Daddy, Discreet, Jock, Geek, Leather, Otter, Poz, Rugged, Trans, poz, and Twink.

   2. There is a little delete X that shows up in the corner of the photo, but if you click it, the app doesn’t respond.

   I uploaded my first photo and the app, for whatever inexplicable reason, uploaded the photo so it appears sideways — even though the photo is not, nor ever has been, sideways.